Archive for July, 2009

Giving Life Your Best

Tuesday, July 28th, 2009

“Full effort is full victory.” These were the words of Mahatma Gandhi whose efforts freed India from British rule.

Achieving your worthy goals is good, but failure to reach a goal does not necessarily mean your effort was in vain. Gandhi is saying that you will be a winner in the game of life if you give your best effort regardless of the outcome.

Who you become due to your effort is more important than what you get from it. Did your effort towards a goal make you a better human being? Did giving the best of yourself build strong character? Did you learn anything worthwhile that will help you and others? If you answered “yes” to these questions then you are victorious.

Knowing in your heart that you gave full effort will bring you a certain peace of mind and satisfaction. This is not to say that you should not desire a successful outcome. However, if you concern yourself with the effort, the results are likely to occur. If your focus is on learning, growing and improving you will get better at anything you do. On the other hand, if you try to avoid failure and mistakes or strive for perfection, you will limit your own growth opportunities. People who fear failure often avoid the very challenges that could stretch them to new heights.

You can approach your education as a journey and opportunity to learn and improve yourself. Or you can only concern yourself with grades and then miss out on many learning opportunities. If you work hard and focus on learning, your grades are likely to get better as a result. Students who are overly concerned with grades and with avoiding mistakes or failure often bypass hard courses and challenging opportunities which could have provided great learning experiences. They hold back, play it safe and don’t give their best so they can say, “I didn’t really try.” Others look at so called failures and mistakes as feedback for their self-improvement and they make a full effort for the learning experience.

Give yourself credit for making an all out effort and value the learning, growth and improvement even its small. Give the best of yourself regardless of the outcome and you will be a winner in the game of life.

Copyright 2009. Raymond Gerson

All the best,

Raymond Gerson

Making the Most of Your Precious Life

Tuesday, July 14th, 2009

“What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” The poet Mary Oliver asks us to reflect on this question in one of her poems just after reminding us that we all have to die and soon.

Time is passing quickly and your life is precious. This is why I encourage my students to follow the advice of Joseph Campbell who said, “Follow your bliss.” Why not pursue career and other goals which will bring you the greatest joy?

What are you passionate about? Who is the person you wish to become? What do you want to accomplish with your life? Before the end of your life what must you achieve to feel that yours was a life well lived?

After you have set clear goals you can ask yourself, “Do my actions support my values and goals?” In other words, is the way you are living your life taking you where you want to go? If not, you can change your habits and actions in order to achieve your dreams.

If you are a student who desires to be successful in school it is important to engage in honest self-examination and ask yourself these kinds of questions. Let’s say you became aware that you were spending 15 hours a week socializing with friends, another 15 hours a week playing video and computer games and two hours a week studying. Would your actions be supporting your goal of becoming a successful student? Obviously the answer is no, but the good news is you could change your habits and get back on track to the success you want.

Keeping your dreams and goals before your mind’s eye is a great way to stay motivated. Then with hard work and determination you can achieve your dreams. The philosopher, Epictetus put it this way, “First say to yourself what you would be, and then do what you have to do.” Clear and worthy goals that you feel passionate about, honest self-examination and determination to succeed are secrets to making the most of your precious life.

Copyright 2009. Raymond Gerson

Best regards,

Raymond Gerson

Discover Your Best Talents and Skills

Monday, July 6th, 2009

Your life provides clues to your natural gifts and potential. You can discover your special talents by observing:

1.Enjoyable activities you do well

2. Consistent feedback from others regarding what you do well

3. Behaviors and skills that are so natural you rarely notice them

4. Activities you do where time seems to fly

5. People whose work you admire

6. Activities that make you come alive

Whenever I see a movie or read a book about a great teacher who makes a difference for students, I am unusually inspired. I believe it is because seeing a great teacher resonates with my own desire to teach and positively affect others. As this experience illustrates, your life provides clues to natural inclinations, gifts, and longings. What deeply moves you and inspires you? What are you naturally drawn to from deep within yourself?

No one wants to die with their song unsung and their potential unrealized. We all have our special talents and potential to make a positive difference in the world. Let your life talk to you. Notice what it is that lights you up with fire, aliveness, passion. Look for clues to your life’s purpose. You can discover and use your most natural gifts and abilities. You can make a difference!

For more information on this subject you can download my ebook, How to Create the Job You Want at no cost. Go to: http://www.raymondgerson.com/freeGifts_landingPage.html

Copyright 2009. Raymond Gerson.